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Three Things I Have Learned From My Students

2/25/2016

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Dr James Comer said:  “No significant learning can can occur without a significant relationship”.

Over the last 16 years, I have learned many things from my students, from how to "Hit the Qwan", to the correct way to walk in new shoes so that you don't crease them.

The lessons that make my top three list, weren't taught to me by my most successful students, and have no connection to grades or test scores.

​These lessons, that were so powerful they changed who I am as a teacher, were the product of relationships.
From my student that had no costume on Halloween, that was glowing with pride as he paraded about in the hand-me-down costume parts I found in my closet, I learned that there is no such thing as a small act of kindness.  I had several opportunities to show kindness to this student, as he was very much in need. Nothing that I did for him seemed extraordinary to me, but when he moved away the next year I realized just how much all of those little things must have meant to him.  He called the school every year to check and see if I was still there and to ask how I was doing. He taught me that sometimes the most important lessons that you teach can not be measured by a test score-it's kindness and compassion that leave a lasting impression. 

​From my student that was "worried about his reputation" I learned to look at my class list in a different way. While reading through the student responses from my favorite back to school activity, I saw the usual: grades, homework, not having recess, and then I come across a response that said, "I am worried about my reputation." This from a student that had been in his fair share of trouble in elementary school. The next day when I arrived at school he came running across the playground to wish me a good morning. I took the opportunity to let him know that I had read his paper and was confident that his reputation could be whatever he wanted to make it. He ran for student council and became a leader in my class that year. Although he had trouble completing written assignments, when given the opportunity to work on group projects he thrived. He had a great talent for speaking. He was charismatic and entertaining, capturing and holding the attention of his audience. He received high praise from me and his classmates for his energy and creativity, and he began to see himself as we saw him-someone with talent and the potential to influence others. 

I am no longer interested in deciding who my students are going to be based on their history or misconduct. I am interested in discovering which of my students most needs someone to believe in him or her. Which of these students needs someone to see the amazing things that they are capable of, so that they will see it too? Which of these students would like to remake their reputation?

From my student that was late for class more often than he was on time I learned the importance of the statement: "I'm glad you're here." During this lesson I found out that my young friend was getting himself up and ready for school before riding his bike three miles, over a bridge during a busy morning commute just to show up. I look at my students a little differently now because you never know what kind of challenges your kids are facing outside of the classroom. It's because of this student that I am driven to make every day in our classroom worth whatever it took to get there.

In short, don't assume opportunity exists, don't underestimate the impact of kindness and compassion, and most of all, be mindful of your influence-it's powerful and lasting.
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San Juana Turner
2/25/2016 11:29:52 pm

You have again touched my heart with your speech. I know you have touched the hearts and minds our our students, keep doing what you're doing, you are making a difference.

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Mike Fink
2/26/2016 06:05:15 am

A well written thoughtful speech. It speaks to the heart of how you touch the lives of your students and how they inspire you to new heights in your profession. Sometimes it is the kindness you show that speaks volumes. Good luck in all your endeavors and win or loose, you are a winner in the eyes of your students and one very proud father. Keep up the great work! ♡

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Suzanne
2/26/2016 03:44:24 pm

I was reading your speech to my sister while heading to WC....we both started crying! You rocked it!!

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Annie Flores-Aikey
2/26/2016 04:30:00 pm

I will be so proud to be sitting at your table tonight! You are a huge inspiration!

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I am very proud to belong to a profession that includes you. The children who blessed my life for 33 years taught me way more than I ever taught them.
6/7/2016 07:14:45 pm

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